search for roots

Many adoptees will one day search for their biological family. This "search for roots" is an existential question in the process of identity formation. 

Even in late kindergarten age, early adopted children begin to understand that adoption is not the normal case of family formation. By the time they reach the second grade, questions about their origins, their biological family and their roots become very virulent for most of them, even if they are sometimes unable to put them into words. Girls, in particular, start looking for the "common thread" in their life stories at an early age.

It is very important to cultivate an appreciative culture of dialogue from the very beginning,

We are also the first point of contact for this, as we need to clarify with the countries of origin if, when and how a tracing can take place. The countries of origin also want the children and their families to be well prepared for the tracing process and the challenges it often brings. 

Even after the root journey, it is necessary and helpful to process what has been experienced. Experiences can be shared through networking with others, supervision groups for parents and biography work groups for children.

We will be happy to help you with further information on root searches. Get in touch with us!